Refrain from Anger: A Psalm 37 Word for Our Day

A Reflection on Psalm 37

Refrain from anger, leave rage alone;
do not fret yourself; it only leads to evil.
For evildoers shall be cut off,
but those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land.”

Psalm 37:8–9

Life has a way of stirring our emotions—especially when injustice seems to flourish, when wrongdoers prosper, or when people mistreat us. Psalm 37 speaks directly into this spiritual tension and gives us gentle, but firm, wisdom from God.

1. Step Away From the Fire Before It Burns You

Refrain from anger” is more than a moral instruction; it is an invitation to freedom.
The anger David describes here is not righteous anger against sin. It is the inward agitation that grows when we compare ourselves to others, when life feels unfair, or when God seems slow to act.

This kind of anger does not purify—it corrodes. It turns our attention away from God’s presence and centers our hearts on our wounds, fears, and frustrations.

God simply says: Let it go.

2. “Leave Rage Alone” — Don’t Feed Destructive Emotions

Rage is anger that has been fed. It is anger that has had time to boil and harden. Psalm 37 tells us not just to step back from anger, but to completely abandon the path that leads to rage.

Don’t rehearse the injury.
Don’t nurse the resentment.
Don’t stoke the fire.

Rage poisons the soul, and it always moves us away from the peace God desires for us.

3. Fretting Is Slow Spiritual Erosion

Do not fret yourself” literally means don’t heat yourself up.
It is the internal simmering we do when we replay a wrong, fixate on evil around us, or let our minds spiral.

Fretting is not harmless.
It drains energy, distorts perspective, and slowly replaces trust with anxiety.

Psalm 37 reminds us: fretting never leads to peace—only weariness.

4. Why Does God Warn Us? Because Anger Leads Us Down the Wrong Path

It only leads to evil,” David writes.

When anger rules, we:

  • Say things we regret
  • Seek our own revenge
  • Lose our peace
  • Become harsh and reactive
  • Stop trusting God’s timing
  • Try to control what only God can fix

Anger bends the heart away from the Lord. It pulls us into self-reliance instead of resting in the God who sees all, judges all, and ultimately vindicates His people.

5. The Hope of Psalm 37: God Will Set Things Right

The psalm does not deny the reality of evil; it simply puts evil in its proper place:

“Evildoers shall be cut off.”

In other words—evil will not have the last word.
God’s justice will not fail.

Meanwhile, those who choose trust over anger, patience over panic, and peace over fretting are given a promise:

“Those who wait for the Lord shall inherit the land.”

Their future is secure.
Their peace is protected.
Their hope is anchored in God, not circumstances.

A Word for Today

Psalm 37 is a needed word for our time—an age of outrage, instant reaction, and relentless anxiety. God invites us to a different way:

  • Release anger
  • Abandon rage
  • Refuse to fret
  • Trust His timing
  • Rest in His justice

When we let go of anger and wait on the Lord, we find that peace is not the absence of conflict—it is the presence of God.


Closing Prayer

Lord,
You know the places in my heart where anger rises and where fretful thoughts take root.
Teach me to release what I cannot control and to trust You with what I cannot fix.
Fill me with Your peace in a world that stirs anxiety.
Help me wait on You with confidence, knowing that You are just, faithful, and true.
Root out bitterness, calm my spirit, and lead me into the quiet pasture of Your presence.
May Your Spirit guard my mind and guide my steps,
so that my life reflects Your peace and not the chaos of the world.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.