A God Who Sees the Silenced

A Devotional Reflection on Tamar, Justice, and Jesus

In Genesis 38, we encounter one of Scripture’s most uncomfortable stories. Tamar is twice widowed, bound by custom, and dependent on the integrity of men who hold power over her life. Onan uses her body but refuses her future. Judah delays justice and hides behind respectability. Tamar is left invisible—until she refuses to stay that way.

This story unsettles us because it exposes a truth we would rather avoid: religious systems can protect privilege while abandoning the vulnerable.

Onan’s sin and Judah’s hypocrisy

Onan’s failure is not simply sexual; it is moral. He takes intimacy while rejecting responsibility. Judah’s failure is quieter but just as deadly. He preserves his public image while postponing Tamar’s dignity and security. Together, they represent a pattern Scripture repeatedly condemns: using power to benefit oneself while denying justice to others.

Centuries later, Jesus names this pattern directly.

Jesus and the exposure of hypocrisy

Jesus speaks with particular sharpness to those who claim moral authority but neglect justice:

“You tithe mint and dill and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness.” (Matthew 23:23)

Jesus’s teaching does not reject moral seriousness—it reorders it. What matters most is not outward compliance but inward truth, not control but compassion. Like the prophets before him, Jesus confronts systems that police behavior while excusing exploitation.

Tamar’s story belongs squarely in this tradition.

Tamar: dignity reclaimed

Tamar does something astonishing. She acts—at great personal risk—to force Judah to confront the truth. When Judah realizes what he has done, he confesses:

“She is more righteous than I.”

This is one of the Bible’s most radical reversals. The woman shamed by society is declared righteous. The man protected by status is exposed. Justice does not come from the powerful doing the right thing voluntarily; it comes because God sides with the wronged and brings truth to light.

Jesus continues this same reversal. He consistently restores dignity to those denied it—women, the poor, the sexually shamed, the socially excluded. He does not excuse sin, but he refuses to confuse sin with vulnerability.

Power, sexuality, and our modern world

Tamar’s story speaks directly to our time.

  • Power: It warns against systems—religious, political, or relational—that benefit from silence. When those with authority delay justice, God is not neutral.
  • Sexuality: It challenges any ethic that focuses on controlling bodies while ignoring consent, care, and consequence. Scripture condemns sexuality that consumes without covenant.
  • Dignity: Tamar reminds us that dignity is not granted by society; it is affirmed by God. Even when voices are dismissed, God hears.

Jesus embodies this truth. He exposes hypocrisy not to humiliate, but to heal. He insists that holiness without justice is hollow, and morality without mercy is false.

A word for today

This story invites us to ask hard questions of ourselves and our communities:

  • Whose dignity is being delayed in the name of order?
  • Where do we benefit from silence rather than truth?
  • Do our moral conversations protect the vulnerable—or the comfortable?

The gospel answer is clear: God’s justice always restores dignity. Tamar’s courage and Jesus’s teaching call us to a faith that does more than look righteous—it acts justly, loves mercy, and walks humbly with God.


Closing prayer

God of the unseen and unheard,
Open our eyes to hypocrisy within us.
Give us courage to name injustice,
Grace to protect dignity,
And hearts aligned with Jesus,
Who lifts the lowly and calls truth into the light.
Amen.